It’s a pleasure to

meet you

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As a passionate kink mentor, I specializes in empowering both couples and singles to explore the realms of BDSM, healthy kink exploration, and intimacy enhancement through kinky tools.

It’s a pleasure to

meet you

.

 

I’m Julieta Chiara—a kink mentor, shibari instructor, and educator passionate about guiding others into their most empowered, connected, and authentic selves through kink.

 

I’m Julieta Chiara—a kink mentor, shibari instructor, and educator passionate about guiding others into their most empowered, connected, and authentic selves through kink.

 

My journey into the world of sex and kink began in a place that might surprise you: Salt Lake City, Utah.

As a Latina growing up in a sex-positive family in a predominantly conservative community, I quickly realized how different my upbringing was. While many around me were navigating taboos and discomfort around sex, I was raised to view it as natural and empowering.

 

My journey into the world of sex and kink began in a place that might surprise you: Salt Lake City, Utah.

As a Latina growing up in a sex-positive family in a predominantly conservative community, I quickly realized how different my upbringing was. While many around me were navigating taboos and discomfort around sex, I was raised to view it as natural and empowering.

This perspective made me a magnet for my peers’ curiosity. Friends would come to me with their questions and confessions, and before I knew it I'd become a 

Mini Dr.Ruth.


Those early conversations sparked something in me—a desire to explore, understand, and help others feel confident in their sexual selves. It planted the seed for what would become my life’s work.

So? I went all in with education, and explored in my own life - which led me to kink.

This perspective made me a magnet for my peers’ curiosity. Friends would come to me with their questions and confessions, and before I knew it I'd become a 

Mini Dr.Ruth.


Those early conversations sparked something in me—a desire to explore, understand, and help others feel confident in their sexual selves. It planted the seed for what would become my life’s work.

So? I went all in with education, and explored in my own life - which led me to kink.

The Journey

I've worn many hats, and they have all represented the erotic, the open, the kinky, and the blissful wildness of human pleasure.

The Journey

I've worn many hats, and they have all represented the erotic, the open, the kinky, and the blissful wildness of human pleasure.

I enrolled in University of Utah, where I earned my psychology degree and dove headfirst into studying psych, sex, gender, and relationship dynamics.

During that time, I started a sex blog to document my own journey—reviewing sex toys, reflecting on my experiences, and exploring kink for the first time.

That blog wasn’t just an outlet; it became a platform to connect with others who craved open, honest conversations about intimacy.

It grew beyond compare, and is how many of you originally found me!

After graduation, I founded a social media marketing agency for the adult industry, helping sex-positive brands and educators navigate the complexities of sharing their work online.

But as much as I loved the creative challenges, I knew I wanted to do more. I didn’t just want to market these ideas—I wanted to help people live them.

Three years ago, I stepped fully into kink mentoring, and it’s been the most fulfilling chapter yet.

I’ve used my education, personal experiences, and hard-earned wisdom to guide individuals and couples in embracing submission, dominance, and connection.

Kink is so much more than an activity—it’s a lifestyle that’s brought me empowerment, safety, and confidence. Watching my clients discover that same magic is indescribable.

 

The art of,

Shibari

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One of the most transformative parts of my journey has been shibari. I was initially drawn to its beauty and precision, but training with Hajime Kinoko in Tokyo under the Ichinawa Kai school revealed its deeper power. Now, as a 2nd-degree licensed instructor, I teach shibari as a pathway to connection—with yourself, your partner, and the present moment.

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